Afraid of Making the Wrong Choice? Try This.

How to break free from decision paralysis and choose with confidence. 

Ever feel stuck because you don’t want to make the wrong choice? Whether you’re choosing a major, internship, or next step, it’s easy to spiral into overthinking—especially when both options seem good (or risky). That’s called decision paralysis, and it’s real. 

But here’s the truth: there’s no single “right” choice—just the next right step for you, right now. 
Designing Your Life teaches us that we can’t choose our way into a perfect life. Instead, we make thoughtful choices and then design a good life around them

😰 Why We Get Stuck: 

  • You’re afraid of missing out 
  • You feel pressure to get it “right” the first time 
  • You have too many options and not enough clarity 
  • You’re worried a decision will define your whole future 

Here’s the good news: You don’t need perfect clarity to move forward—you just need a starting point. 

Enter in the Chat: The Decision Matrix 

A Decision Matrix helps you compare your options based on what actually matters to you—not just what sounds good on paper. 

Here’s how to use it: 

  1. List your options across the top (e.g., Internship A vs. Internship B). 
  1. List the things you care about down the side (like mentorship, location, flexibility, growth, pay). 
  1. Give each factor a weight (1–5) based on how important it is to you. 
  1. Score each option (1–5) for how well it delivers that factor. 
  1. Multiply weight × score, then total it up for each option. 

This creates a visual way to compare what’s best for you, based on your values—not someone else’s checklist. 

What Comes Next? 

  • Review the totals—does the higher-scoring option surprise you? 
  • Listen to your gut—do the numbers confirm or challenge your instinct? 
  • Reflect: Which option gives you energy? Which one feels like growth? 

No tool can guarantee a perfect outcome. But the Decision Matrix helps you make decisions with intention instead of fear—and that’s powerful. 

 
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By Marissa Altenburg, M.A., CCSP
Marissa Altenburg, M.A., CCSP